Friday, December 28, 2018

Hiding In Berlin



I'm done. Finished. At my wit's end. Tired of banging my head day after day. Time to move on.

But to where? I don't want to be anything anymore. I just want to wait it out unseen and unknown until the pale rider comes. I miss her too much to do much anything else.

Berlin is not really a destination. It's more like a giant airport lounge where you get wasted while your flight is delayed. You know sooner or later you have to get out but in the meantime...you simply devolve, trapped in a nihilistic time warp.

It's the perfect place to be nothing. People like to drop their masks here. Even those with a facade seem to do so with a knowing wink. So I'm not troubled by a need to be pleasant and liked as in America. Yes, it's wrong to fade away - but here I've got numbers on my side.

The food sucks. It is, in a word, heavy. I'm constantly seeking out the lighter fare. I don't like any old world food, truth be told.

And they take all the fun out of sex. If nothing is forbidden, where's the fun? It's like how do you know you feel good when pain does not exist. It's all yin with no yang.

Speaking of the old world, I still feel disturbed terror deep in the Rhineland surrounded by dark Germanic forests. Takes me back to the times of wallowing hopelessness, living in Dark Ages squalor. We wondered why we even went on. What was there to live for? I admit, hidden deep inside was a wild streak of optimism of undiscovered magic in the world that even wretches like us could find.

It turned out to be true and the Renaissance times I still hold dear. But Europe finally became a smell I could no longer endure. It still stinks to my nose whenever I return.

I don't go to the infamous clubs, but I drive by and wander around them to absorb the vibes. Sometimes I think I'm hearing a heart whose beats are getting farther and farther apart.

Even under the golden rays of summer Berlin has a blue-gray tinge to it that suits my present mood. In winter times like now, it simply drowns in it. Nighttime makes it terrifying.

I'm trying not to think too much. Some things need to unfold and here I can do it in complete privacy even in public. I want to cry, mourning my life.

From afar, America seems like a red hot boil spitting up acid reflux, too self-involved to ponder her fate. It is certainly a relief to be out of that though highly frustrating I can't make every American feel this perspective.

So I sit and wait...for nothing. It's amazing the depth of blackness here. Late night on my bed I think of the bars and clubs I passed by before, imagining myself inside, losing control, reaching the limits of the universe. I don't have to beg permission or stand in line to get in like the others. Just knowing I can do it is enough. If they ended the clubs it would kill me even having never stepped a foot inside.

In the quiet moments my heart is pounding. Bourdain said there are ghosts in Berlin and I feel every one of them. I wonder how the locals live with them. Maybe they just become part of the fabric of existence, in the background of everyday life.

I know very little German so I'm not distracted by voices. In fact, the one mental exercise I sometimes do is to guess people's meaning just by their tone and inflection. Rest of the time the voices are like a distant soundtrack I can turn off and on as I please.

I feel very fragile. I bought a monk's robe to keep my frowns hidden. Everything is set up for me to relax but if I give in that...I can't help but feel a thousand intrusions will come crashing in. It's like having the weight of the world on you and if you relax for even a moment it crushes you. I'm a wight in this world.

Where will this lead? Who can move forward in life waiting in an airline lounge? One thing has dawned on me is of the pointlessness of so many of my "goals". They are goals that don't actually achieve anything. Yes, getting a good drunk on every once in a while can be a good thing but to make that your goal...

"Stay distracted" has become my mantra over time. I see how ridiculous that is as a goal, but I don't want to face anything either. I just want to stay on this anonymous German bed for now. It's when no one can see me I need you to look at me the most.


Wednesday, December 26, 2018

Headlines Deadlines


I knew who she was. I mean, I didn't know her name, but I knew her. Pretty blonde talking nonstop on her pink encased iPhone about her latest social media conquest and how the universe is her oyster and blah, blah, blah. Hard to believe I'd be the only who'd want to kill her.

It was just us two at the rail station. She completely ignored me which is what I wanted but then again I didn't. Shoving her out onto the tracks in front of that oncoming train was just a reaction inside me, a murderous impulse whose single purpose and desire was total annihilation and destruction - just like a Trump voter. It's like, how long can you ignore an itch that needs to be scratched? That was my first reply anyway.

"This is a serious thing," inquisitioned Lt. Bertrand in an incredibly boring interrogation room. "You think this is a joke, you got another think coming. You know how many years you're looking at?"

For some reason, the more serious a situation, the more flip I become. I wanted to say, "More years than it will take for you to get hair back on that bald head of yours." Instead, I toned it down. "I'm serious. It was like an itch I had to scratch."

"And you're telling me you had no previous relationship with Ms. Miller."

"Never laid eyes on her before. She was just yapping on the phone about that blog of hers."

"What about her blog, then?"

"I don't know. Just sounded real annoying. Dallas hot spots and shit like that. Do I look like I got money for all that?"

"So basically, you heard her talking about her blog, got angrier and angrier, then finally pushed her off the platform. Is that it?"

MAN PUSHES WOMAN TO HER DEATH DUE TO HATING HER BLOG!

"Some men just can't stand to see a successful woman. Sexism, pure and simple. Bet he'd have killed himself if Hillary had become President!"

"I just found his blog and it's nothing but complaining about how nobody reads his crap. Loser!"

"He never would have done this had it been a man on the phone! Men are supposed to be successful. Nobody gets mad when they brag."

Day Two:

"OK, OK, it was more than just her blog talk. She was really cute and had that jogging outfit on just like this girl I knew, Terry, who used to wear that exact same thing. It was the last thing I ever saw her in. I screwed up real bad. I'm ashamed of it to this day and it kills me. I guess because I had Terry on my mind it triggered something. I didn't want anyone to know how monumentally stupid I had been."

MAN PUSHES WOMAN TO HER DEATH DUE TO REMINDING HIM OF HIS EX!

"What's wrong with men? They just can't let go! There's, like, tons of guys who never got over me."

"It's the obsessive compulsive nature of the male ego that brings on these moments of peak psychological torment aggravated by a starved libido in a competitive society."

"I'd call this the ultimate #metoo moment. Killed just for being a woman! Know your worth, ladies!"

Day Three:

"You guys keep searching for a connection. You're wasting your time. I can't tell you the real reason because you'd never believe me so may as well make something up."

"Tell us anyway. You won't get any peace until you do."

"It was her yellow clothes. Wasn't just any yellow, you see, it was that right exact shade I can't stand. I just snapped. What can I say?"

"You're right. I don't believe you."

MAN PUSHES WOMAN TO HER DEATH DUE TO HER WEARING YELLOW!

"This is what it means to be a woman in today's society! You're not allowed to be yourself! You have to wear men's clothes and men's colors or you literally get killed!"

"I think we need to start a yellow clothes wearing protest movement showing we are not afraid to stand up to these kinds of bullies. Yellow power forever!"

"Whole world is going to hell. We need armed guards 24 hours a day on every public platform to keep us safe. There's no other way or we'll all be dead for no reason!"

Day Four:

"Look, dildo breath, I did it because I'm dying inside and I need help. No one will listen to me! It had to be someone everybody liked. Nobody would have cared if it'd been some homeless dude or something. It was a cry for help. I'm sorry."

"We saw you on the videotape leaning over the edge after you pushed her off as if you were saying something. What exactly did you say?

"I said, 'Welcome to the world'."

STORM TO HIT ENTIRE MIDWEST TOMORROW!


Sunday, December 23, 2018

Do The Wrong Thing

Why do I keep thinking my life is a movie?

I'm standing on the balcony of my second floor apartment, leaning over the railing, holding a loaded gun I've never fired, with two arms outstretched aimed at two men, one tall and burly, the other short and slender, talking with their backs to me below. And at this point, whether I do or do not shoot them both, my life is truly fucked.

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It all started earlier that day in the morning, mired in my usual weekend pain, when I was out walking around in the aimless wandering I sometimes do when I'm hurting. There are some empty grassy fields still undeveloped I drive to where no one traverses. It's there I feel safe with my splitting head and were I to die in this moment it would not be the worst thing that could happen. When I say No they say Yes. When I say Yes they say No. I just cannot connect.

I admit I was pretty wrapped up in myself and it was an unpleasant shock to force myself back into the world when I noticed a commotion in the distance. Two men had grabbed a blonde girl in a yellow dress, dragging her away in an apparent kidnapping. Behind them is a row of trees that defines the edge of the field and provides cover from prying eyes from the country road beyond. Only a lost fool like me would be found in such a useless location.

Instinctively I begin to shout and wave my arms causing the two men to pause and look over at me. As I start to walk towards them they abandon whatever plan they had and disperse to the other side of tree line. I run to the yellow dress girl but she is fine. Yet when I ask what is going on she shook her pretty head and refused to answer. I was confounded. Situations like this only happen in movies and I was surprised at my expectation that momentarily something would come along to illuminate and give me context.


Without a pre-written script, I had no idea what to say. I'm certainly not anyone's idea of a movie hero. Looking back, maybe I was in a bit of shock with this intrusion into my isolated life. I was like Chance the Gardener trying to change life's channel with a TV remote. God, did I feel inadequate. Was I supposed to challenge her and force the truth out? She was visibly upset and when she started to stumble away I could only look on in a hapless sort of way, tortured by the idea of what a responsible adult would do.

"Am I a hero?" I kept thinking how the local news trucks would show up with their camera crews wanting to interview me and I'd finally get my 15 minutes of fame. Yippee! But they'd ask too many questions and why I didn't do more and they'd get that look on their face people always do when someone gets to know me: that look of losing all interest. Then they'd pack up and drive away and I be captured on film forever as a fraud. Alone again, naturally.

Of course, I was thinking about how I'd blog about this and with all my bullshit stories this would sound like just another one and no one would be the wiser. Maybe in the retelling I'd add in a little Rashomon factor and play myself up more and leave out a few inconvenient facts. Wouldn't be the first time I've parsed the truth. Then I noticed an object on the ground, square, about an inch and half in size, with metal prongs sticking out of one end. Definitely an electrical device.


"Those men must have dropped this. The fuckers!" They were up to no good and this is turning into a Simon Templar adventure. Except that he would have stuck with the girl giving aid and comfort instead of staring longingly at her legs as she walked off. Anyway, those two guys were assholes and I deserve this little perk whatever it is. A hero's reward! Maybe I can pull this con off after all. I was starting to feel righteous. Idiot.

It was quite a hike back to my car parked to the side of the country road. I was clutching hard the electronic device in my hand, musing on what it could possibly be. Probably nothing, but the greater its value the greater my story - and my worth. So I wasn't giving it up for nothin'! But I felt a presence behind me and when I turned around the big burly guy from before was walking behind me, his eyes dead straight on me.

"Give it back!" he demanded in a thick European voice. "Give it back or I kill you!"

Now, if my head had been in the real world instead of thinking I was in a movie I'd have dropped the damn thing and got on with my worthless life. But I was a hero and the star and if I drop it I can't advance the plot. It bugged me at the time I was thinking that way and putting it down now in black and white makes it look absolutely fucking insane - but I clenched my fist and started running to my car.

"It's mine! Give it back!"

He started running too but if there's one thing I have experience in, it's running. I tore away in my car, smiling at his exasperated face in my rear-view mirror.

"Shit. Maybe this is something after all."

I started to feel excited, my mind racing with the possibilities of this being some sort of high tech device but, good Lord, how cheesy and obvious of a plot line is that?? Still, those guys were trying to drag her away for a reason and maybe it wasn't just because she was hot. My head was spinning! Just the idea my life could be remotely interesting for once, that I could do something worthwhile - and I did save that girl even if I was unable to follow up on it. That just had to be the right thing to do - and I done did it!


I pushed aside the nagging voice that wondered where that little guy had been. Maybe he was...nah, I got away clean, too clever by half. Things always work out for the good guy! I'm too integral to the plot for anything to happen to me. I decided to celebrate and stopped at a Sonic to splurge on a Coney dog. I was so freaking excited to share my news I was the star of my own show and a hero and had an international electronic device worth millions and probably sought after by governments the world over like in "Sneakers". But I couldn't explain all that to the car hop so I just had be satisfied on my own.

"Frodo's got nothing on this boy!"

I got back to my dingy apartment full of feelings I never had before. Jesus, what a feeling to be somebody instead of a nobody. It was like I'd written a hit song, on top of the world. I never realized how badly I'd been craving that and what hell life was in the vacuum in which I had been entombed. Hardest part would be to keep from giggling! Who's the asshole now??

I was turning over the device in my hands, looking for any clues I could find, when I heard a whiff of the heart-sinking sound of the oversized European's voice outside. I ran to the window, peering through the blinds. They were searching the side of the building, then turned to look at my car in the parking lot.

"Shit! Shit ! Shit! Shit! You fucking idiot, look what you got yourself into! Goddam you thinking you were something more than what you are!"

I ran to my bedroom closet and pulled out my suicide gun. Forgot where I put the bullets but found them right away, though it felt like an hour. I crouched back to the patio door, opening it slightly ajar.

"Do we have to do this?" asked the little fellow.

Mumbling, then: "He saw us with the girl too," definitively replied the tall guy.

I could barely hear them but I understood loud and clear. My head suddenly cleared as I thought through the immediate logical scenarios. Even if I ran them off - even by using the police - they could wait outside forever to ambush me. Just a matter of time. What can I do? What can I do?

The only way to handle this was to handle it myself. No one can help or protect me. I just had to be stubborn and hold onto that device, didn't I? "Fuck, nothing is worth this!"

My heart was racing but I knew to wait until later to be scared. Right or wrong, I stepped out onto the patio. The minute they turned around and I saw their eyes - removing all doubt - I'd shoot them down like dogs. It was them or me. No Way Out.


There's got to be another way! I can't do killing. This goes against every fiber of my being. Do this and you're defeated for life. It's the no-win situation you swore you'd never find yourself in.

Then it hit me. I rushed back inside and got my old 35mm camera. The daggers in my heart fell out and at last I felt truly confident in what I was doing. "Hey!" I barked out, causing both men to swing around. I took several quick shots in a row then held up my gun.

"These pictures are going to the police, the internet, and anywhere else I can think of. Anything happens to me, they'll know exactly who did it and hunt you down like dogs. You can have your stupid device, just get the hell out of my life."

My tabletop isn't far from the patio so I was able to quickly grab it and fling it down to them. The short one picked it up, the tall one kept his eyes on me, unwavering in his inspection with his questioning gaze. Then I saw the inevitable look of disinterest I always get as they turned to walk away, my world reverting to what it's always been.

EPILOGUE: I'm haunted and hounded by the idea that device really was my worth and I literally threw it away. Part of me argues I was sensible and mature in what I did. At least I didn't shoot the fuckers. But I couldn't shake the idea I'd failed in the Big Moment every life receives. I really, really, really wanted to get to the truth of that device. My instincts yelled out "Yes!" to keeping it. Perhaps something bigger was driving me, though. Maybe I was simply driven by the need to cry out, "This is what my life is. I can't change it - can I?"


Friday, December 21, 2018

Sword Of Gloom


In the 16th year of the Genroku era [1703], Kenichi sat in the darkness of his spartan samurai house. Though he couldn't directly see it at the moment, he could not escape the presence of the sword mounted on the wall. Its name: Rice Merchant [swords were often named after a victim].

Rarely a day passed that Kenichi didn't think of the day of that Fatal Event. Was he right? Was he wrong? One thing he knew for sure: he had fought in anger. Now it occurred to him that knowing full well he'd win, he should have walked away. That's what a strong man would have done.

This sword that everyone praises...is more of an embarrassment every day. I was weak. Soon they will figure this out and I'll go from hero to coward. If so, I'll not be able to refute it.

The rice merchant's widow, Hisaka, she knew. Sure, her loudmouth husband had been stupid to pick a fight with a samurai, and merchants were considered the lowest class in Japanese society, but he did not deserve death. Hisaka knows the truth, but no one will let her speak it. She'd be derided from all sides. She's as trapped as I am.

In his imagination, Kenichi dreamed of smashing the blade, melting it into a plow, never able to mock him again. But he also knew that to destroy the blade was to be defeated by it. No, he should be able to be free regardless of its existence. But how could that be?

Legally, he was home free. Samurai have the right to take a non-samurai life at will except in the most egregious of circumstances. Kenichi was immediately praised for killing the obnoxious merchant, the city populace surrounding him with congratulations. Yet when his head cleared, he realized his extollers were his captors.


For him to even hint at a morsel of regret, Kenichi was resoundingly shouted down: He didn't know what he was saying. He was being weak. He must not betray. Betray what?

It was something he'd never wanted to face. And until he acted on it, Kenichi too would have behaved as those who supported the killing, exalting violence as a solution. But guilt drove him onward to the truth he needed to stay alive. In this, Kenichi found that to question his killing was same as questioning the favored Japanese tenet of violence [not unique to Japan but Japan was all he knew].

Yes, he surmised, a very known but not fully conscious faith in violence ran in a constant undercurrent to everyday life. Now that he was looking for it, he saw it everywhere. In day-to-day speech, in mandates from the Shogunate, even in the play of children. One day this violence will consume us if we don't reject it and Japan will trigger a great and terrible war. I fear that outcome and for our very survival.

Kenichi was in the unenviable position of having to "come out from among them." That was the price he must pay for his hasty strike, to give up the shadow world life of the samurai. He knew no one would be more mocked than a samurai for renouncing violence. True, there was a history of warlords renouncing the world and entering the Buddhist priesthood when politically advised. But rarely did they rid violence from their hearts.

Kenichi would certainly lose his place in the clan, perhaps even having to return to his home village to be a farmer. His life would be over. Just like the rice merchant's.


As expected, came anger, rejection, and bitterness for Kenichi's newfound awareness and renouncement of the killing. While filled with fear when he hid in the dark, Kenichi found these reactions quite amusing as he stepped into the light. Why do they concern themselves so? I cannot grant them absolution. They scatter like cockroaches before me. So bitter!

Also, the day came when he was finally able to face Hisaka, walking directly to her upon sighting her in the pathway street.

"I don't see how I can ever ask for your forgiveness. But I wish to tell you, that in a way, your husband saved my life. I realize the error of my ways. Should you wish to take vengeance on me it is yours to take. Set me free."

"Up until this moment I wanted you dead and to suffer harshly. But I only felt emptiness when I heard you lost your station with the clan. And your words just now have quenched my fire - and for that I am grateful. Who among us is free from moments of rash anger? Certainly my husband was not when provoking you. Neither am I. Perhaps for us to survive we must face the fact we cannot marry violence to these inevitable lapses."

Later, Hisaka composed a haiku before embarking on a new life.

Our world without swords,
A lost widow's foolish dream,
Wisdom from folly.



My friends wonder what is wrong with me

Tuesday, December 18, 2018

Life And Death Under The Samurai Sun


"Ah, so Omi and Otsu are together now. A good match, each equally ambitious in their own way. But if one were to break the oath of ambition the other would break their bond with haste!"

Young lord Oda Nobunaga laughed at his own observation as his retainers sitting in a semi-circle in front of him in the war room smiled in polite response. If Oda noticed the heavy unease in the air, he did not act as such. He wanted to hear more.

"Tell me what else happened today," he eagerly implored. Forced to comply, tidbits of various information were set forth: a favorite horse came up lame, a good forecast had been given for the rice crop, old but beloved Oshige had become ill, signs of a thunderstorm for the morrow.

"Thunderstorms, eh? Interesting!"

Then the lord retired for the night. Hayato and Shiro stayed behind in mutinous disgust.

"He's too young to rule! We are doomed."

"Not one word of the two castles we lost today. As surely as the sun rises, the Hojo will finish us off tomorrow."

"At least he knows the weather forecast!" sneered Hayato.

"We are samurai and we must face death as is our due. But there is no honor in our lord and we'll die in shame. That has been my greatest fear for as long as I can remember."

"I feel the same way. It's too much for me to die on the field having gossiped like an old hen the night before."

"Has not our lord always preached to follow the star that guides us above all else?"

"Indeed. And despite his age, he is the most stubborn sort I've ever come across. As much as I wanted to bring up the invasion I could not speak a word, almost as if I was in a spell. My head said I have to say something but my instincts said let it go. Now that he's gone for the night I could kick myself for being so weak!"

"We will not be weak tomorrow. We shall follow our own thinking like the standing order says. We are trapped, with no other way out."

"Agreed. We will not let history mark us as fools, our lord's so-called destiny be damned."

For whatever reason, the human creature finds good fortune difficult and even impossible to accept. "Why me and not him?" We become ensnared in a web of negativity, hoping to hide our lack of fealty to our truth. Both Hayato and Shiro felt the wondrous feeling of inspiration given off by Oda, that they were on the verge of a rise to the stars. Each wanted to believe it more than anything in their lives, a dream of dreams.

But Owari province was small and weak, impossible to have a future when dozens of stronger provinces surrounded them, allying themselves together, and Owari's forces outnumbered 10 to 1 by the day's invading army. To think that young lord Oda and the hilariously weak Owari had a future was to be self-deceived and marked an idiot. Yes, instincts are to be trusted - but not this far! Their lord's failure to even broach the subject of the lost castles was the last straw.


The morning light brought no relief. Nobunaga made no preparations for war, heading instead to Zensho Temple. Hayato and Shiro looked at one another, confirming the plans they made the night before.

"The time is nigh!"

Leading a light brigade of 300 precious men, they rushed the Hojo army only to be swallowed up and slaughtered. In this way they had hoped to have honorable things written about them for posterity.

But Lord Oda was a man of destiny. And in a way, the deaths of his two head-strong retainers had served a purpose. Seeing the silliness of the Owari resistance with its futile charge caused the Hojo army to relax and fall into a defenseless state. By opening himself up to let the universe play out as it will, Oda had the wind of destiny at his back, feeding him opportunities for success in the final drive for unification of Japan.

When he heard the news, Oda sprung. "This is the moment I've been waiting for. Our enemy is like a ripe plum ready to be picked. He is tired but we are fresh. He seeks only himself but we seek the nation. Behold! He is defeated by thinking he's already won!"

In the most legendary battle in the Era of Warring States, the Oda forces stormed out of an afternoon cloudburst to upend the Hojo camp, cutting the head off the snake by cutting off the head of Yoshimoto, the clan and army leader.

Oda Nobunaga went on to do the impossible, setting the stage for final unification before being betrayed by a misguided general (who was cut down shortly after). Believe in the universe and its conspiracy to save you, however remote that may seem.

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Among the maxims on Lord Naoshige's wall there was this one: "Matters of great concern should be treated lightly." Master lttei commented, "Matters of small concern should be treated seriously." Among one's affairs there should not be more than two or three matters of what one could call great concern. If these are deliberated upon during ordinary times, they can be understood. Thinking about things previously and then handling them lightly when the time comes is what this is all about.
- from the "Hagakure"


Monday, December 03, 2018

Ask Polly?? Ask Harry!

"I’m Broke and Mostly Friendless, and I’ve Wasted My Whole Life"


Now, how can I resist a headline like that? First reaction was: "Welcome to the club!" Second one too. We're a dying planet, honey, and you won't find the answers here in the world. Dem days is gone. Anyway, I'll post her whole story (as she sees it) below followed by this Polly chick's (major head-rattling) reply. Then, of course, I'll give the proper reply after that (free of charge, as always).

Hi, Polly,

I feel like a ghost. I’m a 35-year-old woman, and I have nothing to show for it. My 20s and early 30s have been a twisting crisscross of moves all over the West Coast, a couple of brief stints abroad, multiple jobs in a mediocre role with no real upward track. I was also the poster child for serial monogamy. My most hopeful and longest lasting relationship (three and a half years, whoopee) ended two years ago. We moved to a new town (my fourth new city), created a home together, and then nose-dived into a traumatic breakup that launched me to my fifth and current city and who-knows-what-number job.

For all these years of quick changes and rash decisions, which I once rationalized as adventurous, exploratory, and living an “original life,” I have nothing to show for it. I have no wealth, and I’m now saddled with enough debt from all of my moves, poor decisions, and lack of career drive that I may never be able to retire. I have no career milestones and don’t care for my line of work all that much anyway, but now it’s my lifeline, as I only have enough savings to buy a hotel room for two nights. I have no family nearby, no long-term relationship built on years of mutual growth and shared experiences, no children. While I make friends easily, I’ve left most of my friends behind in each city I’ve moved from while they’ve continued to grow deep roots: marriages, homeownership, career growth, community, families, children. I have a few close girlfriends, for which I am grateful, but life keeps getting busier and our conversations are now months apart. Most of my nights are spent alone with my cat (cue the cliché) [Hey, can never have too much cat time!].

I used to consider myself creative — a good writer, poetic, passionate, curious. Now, after many years of demanding yet uninspiring jobs, multiple heartbreaks, move after move, financial woes, I’m quite frankly exhausted. I can barely remember to buy dish soap let alone contemplate humanity or be inspired by Anaïs Nin’s diaries. Honestly, I find artists offensive because I’m jealous and don’t understand how I landed this far away from myself.

Also, within the past year I’ve had a breast-cancer scare and required surgery on my uterus due to a fertility issue. On top of that, I’m 35 and every gyno and women’s-health website this side of the Mississippi is telling me my fertility is dropping faster than a piano falling out of the sky. Now I’m looking into freezing my eggs, adding to my never-ending financial burden, in hopes of possibly making something of this haunted house and having a family someday with a no-named man.

I’m trying, Polly. I am. I’m dating. I’m working out and working hard. Listening to music I enjoy and loving my cat. Calling my mom. Yet I truly feel like a ghost. No one knows who I am or where I’ve been. I haven’t kept a friend, lover, or foe around long enough to give anyone a chance. What’s the point? I don’t care for my job. I’m not building toward anything, and I don’t have the time or money to really invest in what I care about anyway at this point. On top of that, society is telling me my value as a woman is fading fast, my wrinkles require Botox (reference said poor finances), all the while my manager is asking for me to finish “that report by Monday.” Why bother?

My apathy is coming out in weird ways. I’m drinking too much, and when I do see my friends on occasion, I end up getting drunk and angry or sad or both and pushing them away. And with men I date, I feel pressure to make something of the relationship too soon (move in, get married, “I have to have kids in a couple of years”; fun times!). All the while still trying to be the sexpot 25-year-old I thought I was until what seemed like a moment ago.

I used to think I was the one who had it all figured out. Adventurous life in the city! Traveling the world! Making memories! Now I feel incredibly hollow. And foolish. How can I make a future for myself that I can get excited about out of these wasted years? What reserves or identity can I draw from when I feel like I’ve accrued nothing up to this point with my life choices?

Haunted

She said she makes friends easily


Dear Haunted,

Art isn’t something you need an outside license or a paycheck to pursue. It’s a way of life. It’s a way of adding up what you feel and where you’ve been and what you fear and what you can imagine. It’s a way of seeing your life through a lens that makes everything — good and bad, confusing and clarifying, uplifting and depressing — valuable.

Shame is the opposite of art. When you live inside of your shame, everything you see is inadequate and embarrassing. A lifetime of traveling and having adventures and not being tethered to long-term commitments looks empty and pathetic and foolish, through the lens of shame. You haven’t found a partner. Your face is aging. Your body will only grow weaker. Your mind is less elastic. Your time is running out. Shame turns every emotion into the manifestation of some personality flaw, every casual choice into a giant mistake, every small blunder into a moral failure. Shame means that you’re damned and you’ve accomplished nothing and it’s all downhill from here.

You need to discard some of this shame you’re carrying around all the time. But even if you can’t cast off your shame that quickly, through the lens of art, shame becomes valuable. When you’re curious about your shame instead of afraid of it, you can see the true texture of the day and the richness of the moment, with all of its flaws. You can run your hands along your own self-defeating edges until you get a splinter, and you can pull the splinter out and stare at it and consider it. When you face your shame with an open heart, you’re on a path to art, on a path to finding joy and misery and fear and hope in the folds of your day. Even as your job is slow and dull and pointless, even as your afternoons alone feel treacherous and daunting, you can train your eyes on the low-hanging clouds until a tiny bit of sunlight filters through. You are alive and you will probably be alive for many decades to come. The numbers on your credit-card statements can feel harrowing, but you can take that feeling and keep it company instead of letting it eat you alive. You can walk to the corner store to buy a newspaper and pull out the weekend calendar section and circle something, and make a commitment to do that one thing. You can build a new kind of existence, one that feels small and flawed and honest, but each day you accumulate a kind of treasure that doesn’t disappear. Because instead of running away from the truth, you welcome it in. You don’t treat what you have as pointless. You work with what you have.

That doesn’t mean it’s easy. It’s not easy for anyone, no matter how many deep roots they might’ve nurtured. I find it very hard, even now, to do the hard things that I need to do in order to feel good. I slip into bad habits easily, without noticing, and my worldview suffers for it. I know exactly which good practices will fuel me and make me wake up to the world around me. I know that, when I’m feeling ashamed and sick inside, I have to stand outside of that feeling and examine it and treat it like a fascinating artifact, something useful, something to build from, something to treasure, even.

Let me be more concrete: Promoting a book — which is what I’ve been doing since my new book came out last month — is fun and exciting. You get to travel and meet new people. But there are aspects of it that feel a little corrosive. Too much focus on the self, on presentation, on sales numbers, on whether or not your work matters. Right now I’m reading the novel Less, by Andrew Sean Greer, and I love the way it captures exactly how insecure writers can be, and how much the world will magically transform around them in order to manifest that insecurity and then torture them with it. But Less is also a story about shame. When you carry around a suspicion that there’s something sort of embarrassing or pathetic about you, you find ways to project that shame onto completely innocuous things. You find ways to tell yourself that everyone is laughing at you behind your back somewhere, possibly at a party where they are serving beautiful tasty drinks but you weren’t invited. You’re too old now. You’re no longer exciting or important. You don’t matter. You never really did.

Shame creates imaginary worlds inside your head. This haunted house you’re creating is forged from your shame. No one else can see it, so you keep trying to describe it to them. You find ways to say, “You don’t want any part of this mess. I’m mediocre, aging rapidly, and poor. Do yourself a favor and leave me behind.” You want to be left behind, though. That way, no one bears witness to what you’ve become.

It’s time to come out of hiding. It’s time to step into the light and be seen, shame and wrinkles and failures and fears and all.

I’ve had to step into the light myself lately. I’ve had to admit that I was building a new haunted house out of my imagination. But my mistakes and experiences and choices brought me to this moment. They might make me sad or embarrassed or regretful, but they’re precious because they give this day its unique mood. When I drag them into the light, I feel better. This is where I can begin. Today, I have countless chances to reinvent and rework and reorder myself and my experience. You do, too. I can figure out some way to make one true connection, to do one hard thing, to savor one moment. So can you.

I know you’re trying. I know you’re working hard, and you’re tired. You don’t like your job, but you don’t feel like you can quit. You wish you hadn’t lived the way you’ve lived. You wish you’d made closer friends and built more lasting relationships and stayed in one place. You feel like you have very little time left. And maybe you don’t even care that much about the time you have left, right now.

McKayla's trying too!

But your concept of yourself makes no sense. You got it from a rom-com. Age 35 is not an expiration date on your beauty or your worth. It doesn’t matter if every single human alive believes this. It’s your job to cast this notion out forever. I’m 48 years old and I’m determined not to tell a story about myself that started in some beauty-product boardroom, among unimaginative corporate marketing professionals. I fail at this quest often, but I’m still determined. I’m going to choose to embrace narratives that make me feel more alive and able to contribute whatever twisted crafts I can to this world, while I can.

If you want to build a life with a partner, and have a more satisfying career, and maybe have children, you need to treat yourself like a treasured child starting today. If you had a daughter who was 35 years old and felt like all of her traveling and moving was a giant mistake that embodied everything BAD and shortsighted about her, what would you tell her? You’d tell her she was wrong. You’d say, “Your life is just beginning!”

Learn to treat yourself the way a loving older parent would. Tell yourself: This reckoning serves a purpose. Your traveling served a purpose. Your moving served a purpose. You’re sitting on a pile of gold that you earned through your own hard work, you just can’t see it yet. You can’t see it because you’re blinded by your shame.

It’s okay to be in debt and worried. It’s okay to feel lonely and lost. It’s okay to feel tired of trying. It’s okay to want more and wonder how to get it. You’re just a human, this is how we feel a lot. It’s not irregular or aberrant to feel despair. This is part of survival. Your shame is forming your despair into a merciless story about your worth. Don’t let it do that. Build something else from your shame instead.

What will you build? Only you know that. What is shame worth? You’ll find out once you start digging in.

I’ll start for you. My shame is enormous: I keep seeing that lately. It keeps me online, interacting with ghosts, making meaning out of my pointless little broadcasts and pronouncements. It keeps me scanning the horizons for improvements. My shame keeps me fixated on novelties, on the future, on some exciting version of me that’s only a purchase or a breakthrough away. “You can be better than this,” my shame whispers in my ear. “You need to try harder. You need to hide the scary things you carry around. You need to act like you’ve arrived, even though you’re so inadequate and broken that you never will.”

When I’m hiding from my shame and also viewing my life through the lens of that shame, I get fixated on WHAT NEEDS FIXING. But nothing needs fixing, actually. I need to come back to reality and live there instead. Living in reality means becoming a scientist of shame. It’s an investigation. I can look at my shame, consider it, lament it, celebrate it, treasure it — how it changes the atmospheric pressure, how it makes it possible for me to reach out, to other people, in the hopes of making some connection, how it opens my eyes to the beautiful little awkward minutes of this day. My shame is the fuel that keeps me writing. My shame is the fuel that makes me exercise. My shame gives me a lens for understanding my husband and my kids. My shame makes my work possible. My shame — when I invite it in and forgive it — builds my empathy for others.

Treat yourself well and look closely at your shame. Are you supposed to stay in a job you hate as punishment for your debts? What if you ate baked potatoes and beans and rice for a full year and tried out some new career paths? What if you reached out to other people, and friends, and family, and let your shame into the room with you? What if you simply experimented with being who you are, out in the open, even as that feels difficult and awkward and sad?

What if you just decided that you’re an artist, today, right now? You’re sensitive and erratic, maybe. You’re maudlin and also expansive. What would it look like to own that identity, as a means of making art, sure, but also as a means of owning your FULL SELF? You wouldn’t feel as angry at other artists. You would recognize them as kindred spirits. You might notice how your shame matches theirs, and fuels all of you. You might feel proud of your small creations and you might start to see how every single thing you’ve done, every place you’ve been, every town you’ve lived in and left, every friend you’ve gotten to know and then forgotten, they all add up to a giant pile of treasure.

You are 95 years old, looking back at your 35-year-old self, and this is what you see: a young woman, so young, so disappointed, even though everything is about to get really good. She doesn’t see how much she’s accomplished, how much she’s learned, how many new joys await her. She doesn’t know how strong she is. She is blindfolded, sitting on a mountain of glittering gems. She is beautiful, but she feels ugly. She has a rich imagination and a colorful past, but she feels poor. She thinks she deserves to be berated because she has nothing. She has everything she needs.

Speaking of which, I went to go visit that 93-year-old woman I met on the plane, the one I wrote about a few weeks ago. She had told me her birthday was coming up, so I brought her a birthday card.

But it was difficult. It made me feel dumb to show up at her house with a card. I felt embarrassed for some reason. I even felt a little stupid calling her earlier today, asking if she needed anything. I don’t have a ton of free time. I have a long list of things I should be doing. It feels dopey to call someone new, someone who is much older and probably has other things to do.

But this woman, I like her a lot. She is extremely interesting. She tells long-winded, wild stories. She plays poker and has a lot of friends. She even sang me a song that she wrote in 1968. She grew up during the Prohibition, motherfuckers. She’s had a lot of experiences and she’s made a lot of mistakes, and she doesn’t mind talking about them. She’s a very honest person.

Before I left, she gave me a porcelain cat with a grumpy expression on its face that was sitting outside, covered in dust. She’s getting rid of some of her old things, she said. I’d be doing her a favor by taking it. “I don’t need anything from you, trust me,” I said. “I just like your company.” “Take the cat anyway,” she said.

As I opened the front door, I turned around and told her how nice it was, talking to her. She smiled. “You’re a human being,” she said. “A real human being.”

“I am,” I said. “I wasn’t a few years ago. But I am now.”

All you have to be is a human being, Haunted. That’s success. When you’re a human being, life feels satisfying. Everything adds up. Every little thing matters. Look at what you have. This is where it all begins. All you have to do is open your eyes.

Polly


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In another life she's a famous actress

Gawd, did anyone make it through Polly's reply/novelette? Not I. Laughed my ass off at Haunted's self-description as being a creative person. Enjoying God's special curse, are we! No one gives a fuck about your gifts if you can't monetize them. Become a hitlady, make tons of money, repent, then spend rest of your life painting. That's today's formula for success. But what she's really asking for is permission to fail, to which I promptly reply: "Go ahead, you're right, put a bullet through your head." [Which caused a sudden change of Haunted's heart - surprise, surprise!]

Harry


Saturday, December 01, 2018

The Antioch World

Inlet Stump Sun

My Antioch world is invisible to others


I can see yours


But never enter it

I wonder constantly how to get there


Or is it a mirage?


I imagine myself among the daisies and dogwoods

But I cannot touch them from my world


Somewhere along the line I slipped away


Or was I born into this?

The grey sun asks where I am, seeking me out


I shout and wave my arms but to no avail


What are the forces that keep me here?

I travel in an invisible prison


I am not heard because I speak of what they do not see


To others it appears as if I'm in their world

But like a grain of sand in the desert
I am not distinguished



I dream of life in the living sky


How do I reach the world that was given to us?

Wonderland 48.

Sunday, November 25, 2018

Samurai Forever


"Kusunoki has revealed himself: his heart is cold. He's a man who whistles in hell."

Stunned villagers gasped as Kusunoki solemnly sauntered down the middle of the road holding the head of his former liege-lord Tadahashi. Notices of the Imperial bounty on Tadahashi's head unavoidably covered the province ensuring even the lowliest of peasants knew of the reward. Apparently, Kusunoki had decided to cash in.

"He was Tadahashi's most trusted and able deputy - and now look at him! He has lost all honor."

As a crowd began to follow in Kusunoki's wake, six of Tadahashi's remaining retainers came out to block the road, demanding that Kusunoki explain himself. It was a hollowed man who answered.

"Our lord asked me to do this."

"You lie! Lord Tadahashi would never quit! You try to justify your evil deed. Are you not now taking his head to the emperor's palace for reward?"

"Yes, I am," replied a matter-of-fact Kusunoki. "Ware tada shiru taru."

This only inflamed the retainers with outrage, threatening to take his life, their only hesitation was Kusunoki's previous reputation being above reproach.

As ruler of the Izumu province, Tadahashi was much beloved and revered. He was a man of great insight whose mind was "worth 10,000 soldiers." When he determined the imperial taxes levied from Kyoto had become too burdensome to pay, Tadahashi was undefeated in turning back forces sent against him. In fact, his reputation reached such heights he was co-opted by the emperor, naming him Captain of the Left Division. It was the only way to stop further disgrace at the hands of the smaller yet more unified forces of Tadahashi.

But as water seeks to find and fill every crevice in a rock, so does the poison of politics worm its way into the weakness of every heart. Moronao, a Shogunate Regent, envied not only Tadahashi's growing reputation in the royal court, but also his famously lovely wife. Through back channels he sent her several messages but to no avail. So using his influence and position, Moronao was able to convince the Shogun that Tadahashi was planning a full blown rebellion, not satisfied with the awards he'd been given. Serving a god other than truth, the Shogun did not bother to check the veracity of Moronao's claims.

Having been labeled an outlaw, Tadahashi was then forced to act like an outlaw to survive. (Moronao then used this as "proof" to the Shogun.) Having only a small band of retainers with him at the time of the royal decree, he went on the run into the deepest parts of the Kai mountains. Separated from his family, he gave orders for them also to flee but tragedy ensued. Though having been given orders to keep Tadahashi's wife alive, the soldiers bungled their job, the entire family dead by the emperor's forces. Next thing anyone knew Kusunoki was walking through the village carrying Tadahashi's head.

The loyal retainers could barely contain their rage watching Kusunoki prepare provisions for his long trip to Kyoto. "We should kill him," snarled one, saying it more as a decision than a statement.


"No," said a Zen priest who was part of the inner circle. "It's none of our business."

"You say that only because you are his friend!"

"I say it because it's the truth. If he does wrong then he alone carries it on his head. What is it to you?"

"It is our duty!"

"Did not our lord always say to stand with the truth? We must cleanse our hearts and let all-knowing Nature take its course. That is our duty. That is being strong."

"If we let the Shogun get away this, the whole nation is in danger. I don't care what they said about our lord, we knew him to be honest and true. We must mount a campaign so everyone will know this!"

"The truth remains the same with or without our efforts. Let us speak what's in our grieving hearts as our protest - then move on. Life awaits us, we cannot be distracted from that with wasted efforts. Let it go."

"We cannot let this go!"

"You must! Or be expelled forever from the clan."

"And just who is going to expel me, priest?" hissed the retainers' leader.

"You will," answered the priest with dead certainty.

Realizing they were helpless to shape the world as they saw fit, the retainers separated into their own private grumblings - except for the leader whose heart stayed clinched in the name of justice. He chased down Kusunoki on the road by the end of the evening, calling out to him from the darkness.

"Traitor, stop! You know what you're doing is wrong. I have justice on my side and I will strike you down."

Kusunoki was unruffled. "You don't have justice on your side. You're a mere busybody who needs to tend to his own life, not mine."

The words were like soothing water on a fire but the fact his rage was melting only made the leader more fearful he had no integrity. It was his time to choose between life and death. Later, his body was found dead on the road, his confused mind chopped down by Kusunoki's clear mind.

Hearing of the lead retainer's death had a calming effect on the village, a seed of doubt planted in their outrage. The ever-flowing pull to life - encouraged by the Zen priest - eventually brought them into a state immune from criticism, just as Kusunoki had become. Some believed it was "too good to be true" a just fate could come out of letting things be. Surrounding provinces began to whisper of cowardice and dishonor of the Izumu province, turning into open mockery in the following days.


But like a flip of the switch, the world reversed.

"He's dead! He's dead!" hailed a runner into the village.

"Who's dead? Kusunoki? Did he get his just desserts after all?"

"Moronao is dead! Kusunoki lunged with a hidden dagger after he was given the gold reward. It was Moronao who betrayed our lord, spreading lies and forcing him to run. Master Kusunoki told me this the night before: Lord Tadahashi instructed him to take his head to Kyoto, he had nothing left to live for with his family dead, and to keep secret his plans for justice. The palace guards descended on Kusunoki after he stabbed Moronao, instantly killing him. I escaped with the gold to help rebuild the clan as was our lord's final wish." The runner dropped to his knees, overwhelmed with tears.

The Izumu province (whose symbol was changed to 賢い) became renowned for its wisdom, the many who had mocked them became the mocked. The truth had set them free instead of into a self-destructive rage. The Shogunate, having been exposed for its lack of honesty and integrity, rotted in decay in the ensuing years giving birth to chaos and the Era of Warring States, the final battle for unification and control of Japan.

Monday, November 19, 2018

I Have A (Trumptard) Dream!

I have a dream this picture is used every time they refer to Der Furor

I am happy to join with you today in what has gone down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom of white power in the history of our nation.

I have a twisted dream! I have a dream that 100 years from now no non-whites will be in office so that the lower races remain in economic chains to serve us in perpetuity.

I have a twisted dream! I have a dream that whites are forever owed the right to rule this land in order that we have the liberty to pursue our happiness at the expense of all others.

I have a twisted dream! I have a dream that business as usual is the business of keeping whites rich and non-whites poor.

I have a twisted dream! I have a dream that every white drinks from the cup of violence and bitterness if he is ever denied his life of rank and privilege.

I have a twisted dream! I have a dream that every police officer has the freedom to inflict unspeakable brutality on any non-whites.

I have a twisted dream! I have a dream that my children be judged by the color of their skin and NOT by the content of their character.

I have a twisted dream! I have a dream that non-whites forever wallow in the valley of despair. This is our hope. This is the faith I take back to my limousine.

I have a twisted dream! I have a dream that justice be defined by making life good for every white, that we own every mountaintop and every molehill.

I have a twisted dream! I have a dream that whites rule every city and every hamlet, every state and every corporation, and we'll be able to sing out: "Free at last! Free at at last! Thank God a-Mighty, free at last to fuck every non-white in the world!"


REAL VERSION:



I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.

Five score years ago a great American in whose symbolic shadow we stand today signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree is a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity. But 100 years later the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later the life of the Negro is still badly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later the Negro lives on a lonely island and of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later the Negro is still languished in the corners of American society and finds himself in exile in his own land. So we've come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.

In a sense we've come to our nation's capital to cash a check. When the architects of our Republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men - yes, black men as well as white men - would he guaranteed the unalienable rights of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, a check which has come back marked "insufficient funds."

But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation. So we've come to cash this check, a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice.

We have also come to this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to make real the promise of democracy. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quicksands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood.

Now is the time to make justice a reality for all of God's children. It would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment. This sweltering summer of the Negro's legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality - 1963 is not an end but a beginning. Those who hope that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual.

There will be neither rest nor tranquility in America until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights. The whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright days of justice emerge. And that is something that I must say to my people who stand on the worn threshold which leads into the palace of justice. In the process of gaining our rightful place we must not he guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred.

We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. We must not allow our creative protests to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force. The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to distrust all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny.

They have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom. We cannot walk alone. And as we walk we must make the pledge that we shall always march ahead. We cannot turn back. There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, "When will you be satisfied?" We can never be satisfied as long as the Negro is the victim of the unspeakable horrors of police brutality.

We can never be satisfied as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities.

We cannot be satisfied as long as the Negro's basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their adulthood and robbed of their dignity by signs stating "For Whites Only."

We cannot be satisfied as long as the Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and the Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote.

No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until justice rolls down like waters and righteousness like a mighty stream.

I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulation. Some of you have come fresh from narrow jail cells. Some of you have come from areas where your quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering.

Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive. Go hack to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to South Carolina, go back to Georgia, go hack to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed. Let us not wallow in the valley of despair.

I say to you today, my friends, though, even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream. I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up, live out the true meaning of its creed: "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal."

I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave-owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood. I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. I have a dream... I have a dream that one day in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of interposition and nullification, one day right there in Alabama little black boys and black girls will he able to join hands with little white boy's and white girls as sisters and brothers.

I have a dream today... I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low. The rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight. And the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together. This is our hope. This is the faith that I go back to the South with. With this faith we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith we will he able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.

This will be the day when all of God's children will be able to sing with new meaning. "My country, 'tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the pilgrim's pride, from every mountain side, let freedom ring." And if America is to be a great nation, this must become true. So let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire. Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York. Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania. Let freedom ring from the snowcapped Rockies of Colorado. Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California.

But not only that. Let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia. Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee. Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi, from every mountain side. Let freedom ring...

When we allow freedom to ring - when we let it ring from every city and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God's children, black men and white men, Jews and gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual, "Free at last, Free at last, Great God a-mighty, We are free at last."